Definition:

To use wrongly or improperly; misuse: abuse alcohol; abuse a privilege. Also, to hurt or injure by maltreatment; ill-use. Another definition would be to force sexual activity on; rape or molest; to assail with contemptuous, coarse, or insulting words; revile.

Brief Explanation:

Sadly, abuse is often found in families in the church, and the church is a microcosm of the world, though forgiven. Many patterns of family life, previous abuse or neglect, occurring before salvation are brought with the believer into the church, and can be acted on. When physical, sexual or emotional abuse occurs, whether towards child or spouse, safety must be considered first. God’s word speaks to the harm of abuse, and God’s ability to forgive and heal. For more, see Family Violence: Patterns of Destruction by Dr. DeKoven.

The Word of God:

Psalm 34:4,5

“I sought the Lord, and He answered me, And delivered me from all my fears. They looked to Him and were radiant, And their faces shall never be ashamed.”

1 Peter 5:7

“…casting all your anxiety upon Him, because He cares for you.”

Psalm 42:11

“Why are you in despair, O my soul? And why have you become  disturbed  within  me?  Hope  in  God, for I shall yet praise Him, the help of my countenance, and my God.”

Genesis 6:11

“How the earth was corrupt in the sight of God, and the earth was filled with violence.”

Luke 3:14

“And some soldiers were questioning him, saying, “And what about us, what shall we do?” And he said to them “Do not take money from anyone by force, or accuse anyone falsely, and be content with your wages.”